okay. so you’re a woman with c.p. and you’re aging, which is fine. one of the things that you’ve learned is that as aging happens, you may periodically lose control of certain bodily functions, like your bladder.

what if you had someone who you liked very much stay over and you lost control during the night? and then this person woke up very early, took a shower, and left?

and you were suddenly left with so many questions, like: does he know? do i tell him? will this change things? will i become totally unattractive now?

what would you do?